If one more person tells you to “just meditate,” “balance your hormones,” or “be grateful for what you have,” you might scream.
Because you’ve tried it all—therapy, coaching, biohacking, retreats, nervous system regulation, building a purpose-driven career—and yet the spark still feels dim. Life feels muted. Something is off.
Here’s the truth: you’re not ungrateful, broken, or crazy.
What you’re bumping into is something no one named—until I made a discovery that turned the women’s empowerment world upside down...
...A discovery that has already transformed the lives of thousands of women—and rippled into their families, their businesses, and their legacies.



For thousands of years, women have been oppressed.
Oppression is traumatic. Science has shown that trauma is genetically transmitted.
I termed my discovery of this collective, inherited trauma Patriarchy Stress Disorder® (PSD).
PSD creates as invisible inner barrier to women's happiness and fulfillment. As we reach for our fullest authentic expression, for our ultimate inner freedom, our subconscious screams "unsafe!" and activates sabotage.
This is why therapy, coaching, mindset, or even purpose-driven work haven’t delivered what you crave. They don’t touch the inherited trauma of PSD.
This is why this discovery changes everything. Thousands of women are finally breaking free—and now you can too.
When I discovered Patriarchy Stress Disorder®, I knew naming it was only the beginning.
Healing generational, collective trauma takes more than insight — it requires engaging the body, the nervous system, the subconscious mind, as well as thought, emotion, behavior, and relationship patterns in a profound transformation.
Then my husband, Jeffrey Tambor, and I joined forces.
My background is in psychology, various modalities of psychological counseling and therapy, pedagogy, teaching yoga and mindfulness, and PhD research on facilitating transformation via online and in-person programs.
Jeffrey brings over two decades of experience in somatic trauma resolution, body-based therapies, energy psychology, and transformational coaching specifically focused on healing personal, ancestral, and collective trauma.
When we combined our expertise, The Thriving Method® was born — a powerful system that resolves PSD at the root and effectively takes down this invisible inner barrier to women’s happiness and fulfillment.
Together, we’ve helped thousands of women around the world reclaim their joy, freedom, and aliveness...
(You can watch a few of their stories after you register.)


PSD hides in plain sight by making women dismiss their own symptoms and just “be grateful” for their lives.

This trauma is not personal failure. It’s collective. It didn’t start with you.

And because PSD is collective trauma, it requires collective healing.



That’s why we’re gathering. This isn’t work you can do alone. This is the work of women coming together, breaking the silence, naming what has never been named, and beginning to heal what we carry—not just for ourselves, but for our daughters, our mothers, our families, and our legacies.
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